Joke Anders

System constellations

"Every person belongs to a system"

Every person belongs to a system. A system you belong to is your family. And your body is also a system. When you grow up, at some point you go to school which is also a system that you as a person become connected to and influenced by.

Every system is dynamic, it moves and consists of different parts.

So we can set up any system, whether it is a body, a family or desire, a problem or illness, a trauma or a combination of systems.

The basis for doing family constellations is the premise that a family works as a system in which there is a special connection between all members of the family. In this, it essentially does not matter with whom you have more or less contact.

This special connection is created by 2 people passing on their life and their genes to their children. The children pass it on to their children. In the family system that is created in this way, a family conscience is active, a family conscience that is always looking for the right balance. If that balance is there, all members have peace and can go their own way in life. That balance can be disturbed by unprocessed problems in the family, for example by a rejected family member, parents or children who died early, children placed outside the home, traumatic events in the war and more.

Systemic constellations is a clear and practical method that immediately makes the underlying movements and problems in a family system (or any system) visible and can find a solution for them.

Insanely interesting to get to know yourself better, even if you are free of "problems" and want to develop yourself further.

Extremely suitable for everyone

which seems hampered by certain patterns
who keeps falling back into addiction or destructive behavior
who never finds himself good enough
who wants to get to know themselves better
that remains "stuck" in the past
who wants to move forward and free themselves from limiting factors
who struggles with feelings of "guilt"

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How does it work?

When it is clear what exactly your problem or issue is, we will look together at who and which components/persons play a role in your situation. Then these persons, elements or abstract concepts are physically “set up” or placed in the space by you in the form of independent substitutes (positions in space). From that moment on, all set up elements are connected from their position to that or the person they represent and they can provide information that provides clarity in your issue. This provides insights very quickly, because you can see the different components and questions are answered. After the necessary information has been released, it becomes clear what a good solution, insight or acceptance could be for your situation.

“Never thought that a constellation would work so deeply, release so much and deliver immediate results. I have always thought that a constellation exists in the area of family. In my case, we did a constellation on a desire. I want something but I sabotaged myself to realize that desire. Why do I do that while I want it so much, was the question I kept asking myself. The answer to this question followed during the constellation, but more importantly I felt a shift taking place in myself. On the one hand, something was cleared up and on the other hand, space was created for my desire. It had an immediate impact; so beautiful. It is wonderful!”

Hanneke

MashIt
“I did a constellation with Joke 3 months ago. When I came in I didn’t know what to expect. And certainly not that it would have a big impact on my life. I had a pretty big problem with self-esteem for a long time. I wanted a solution for this but I didn’t know how. Then I sat in a room with Joke for an hour and a half to do the constellation and when we were done I felt my self-esteem again. I can explain how we did this, but this is different for everyone. It was an intense constellation, but it was so worth it!! Thank you Joke!”

N

YesSuits
"My experience was really nice. Of course it was intense, but you expect that. It really helped me and she made me discover things that I had not even thought about. Since that session I feel much better, I never knew that my subject would be such an obstacle. Thank you very much.''

M

Knob
“The constellation I did with Joke was very special. Together we looked at a theme, an important common thread in my life. I chose 4 people to whom I gave a place on a chair, next to me. At first it felt strange and far away, but that quickly changed. It became intense, because at a certain point I gave myself over to it. Joke regularly had her eyes closed, total concentration on what was happening, and what was being passed on through her. She talked, asked questions and helped me further, like a guide. I gave something back to each person in my constellation. The most difficult one that touched me the most, my father, last. My father passed away 5 years ago, but for a year now he has regularly attended the sessions with Joke. The same goes for the constellation. How did I feel afterwards? Very calm. And what did it ultimately do to me? It set a process in motion, or accelerated what was already going on. It makes me more aware of patterns that I have 'inherited', and that I can give back burdens to those who have them hear burdens. That brings relief; for me not suddenly like a bolt of lightning, but step by step and very steadily. As Joke put it so beautifully: if you take this on, you can't go back."

Knob
“Not so long ago I was allowed to experience a constellation with Joke in her practice. As long as I can remember I have struggled with my femininity and how to express this without shame, there was a taboo on this at home and I have always kept it in the background but this no longer suited me since I have gone through a strong development I wanted to do something with this together with Joke we looked at this and she decided that a constellation would help me in this and wow what did it certainly do, the constellation that I had concentrated on my being a woman, I let it all go during that session, I said goodbye to a lot of old pain and what a wonderful feeling I have finally been able to embrace my being a woman with pride and love''

H

Knob